Most families attempt to care for their elderly relatives but it poses a hardship on them. If they’re having problems walking, can not go straight to the bathroom, can not dress themselves, then it becomes a problem because they need 24 hour care. The person who is caring for them is usually stressed, & that isn’t good for the elderly relative nor the care giver. Then take into account the personality of the patient (stubborn) that makes it even harder. We want to do what’s right because we love our relatives, but it does pose a problem. Then they finally get too sick for home care & is put into the nursing home.
Then of course, they require a visit at least once a week. Many times these men & women will become depressed & will pass away sooner if left abandoned in the nursing homes.
We attempt to visit my aunt every Sunday. She is 93 years old. Still living & doing well. She has had a couple serious illnesses but she managed to survive them. There was a crisis many weeks ago when she went into a coma & the doctor told us it would be better if they pulled the plug because she did not seem to want to live anyway. We all said our goodbyes to her, & of course we prayed for her. The pastor of her church & the congregation prayed for her, & miraculously, she recovered.
I miss the jolly woman that she once was. But I still appreciate her, even now.