More than ½ of the people in the United States need glasses or contacts to see clearly. And the other ½ expects that as they get older, they will, too.
Even though poor vision is the largest health-related epidemic affecting Americans today, even though younger & younger children are needing glasses & even though more middle-age people are needing bifocals & reading glasses, nearly virtually everyone thinks that it is all perfectly normal & acceptable.
Poor vision is, quite simply, the problem that nobody wants to sees.
Yet, doctors & researchers are at a loss to explain its exact cause. (1) Even though some still cling to the old belief that vision problems are inherited research dispels this myth: only 3 people out of every 100 are actually born with vision problems. (2)
A REVEALING CONNECTION
From a holistic point of view, not seeing clearly means more than not being able to see across the desk, across the room or across the street.
Being nearsighted is an expression of how a person views & responds to the world. Being nearsighted is a way of seeing - or not seeing - that goes beyond being able to see the bottom line on the eye chart.
We understand this subconsciously, if not directly. Take the movies, for example. And so… So far so good. When a screenwriter wants to portray a character who is timid, shy, or unsure of him or herself, invariably that character wears glasses. And we in the audience get the message that wearing glasses conveys.
Behavior & personality studies on nearsighted people have been done since the early 1900s. Richard Lanyon. Ph.D., of the Harvard Medical School, co-authored a journal article reviewing the many studies that clearly document the relationship between personality & vision. (3) Nearsighted people consistently test as being more introverted, shy & lacking in confidence than their clear-seeing counterparts.
Spiritual teachers also recognize this relationship. Louise Hay, author of the classic You Can Heal Your Life, suggests that nearsighted people have a fear of seeing their future & of not trusting what’s ahead in their lives.
Seth Speaks author, Jane Roberts, notes that for many, nearsightedness was a physical manifestation of something that they did not want to see - on an emotional, psychological and/or spiritual level.
I’ve pent the last thirty years teaching holistic vision care, working one-on-one with people & conducting hundreds of work shops & seminars.
My experience confirms this relationship between the inner & outer aspects of seeing. My experience also shows me that it’s not just nearsightedness that has a mind/body connection: farsightedness, astigmatism, eye imbalances - even some medical eye problems - also do.
The eyes are more than a camera. And not seeing clearly means more - much more - than only that the camera being out of focus.
Our eyes are also sensitive emotional receptors through which we relate to others. Right. We express our feelings through our eyes. Right. We can often tell what somebody is thinking by the ‘look’ in their eyes. And, in many ways, how we feel tempers how & what we see.
All of us have been in situations where we see things we do not like or that have hurt us in some way. Perhaps we imagine, ‘If I pretend not to see it, it will disappear,’ or ‘I do not want to see this part of myself or what’s going on around me.’ Pretending not to see or not to know is one coping strategy that may be a useful protection at certain times.
The difference is that those who do not see clearly have ingrained this response into their consciousness, most often in response to particularly stressful situations that occurred prior to needing glasses the first time.
THE VISION TRANSITION PERIOD
I surveyed 583 people before they began using The Program for Better Vision, a vision improvement audio course I developed. I found that 63% of them were able to remember at least one significant change that occurred in their life during the 12 to 18 month period before first noticing a limitation in their vision. I call this period the Vision Transition Period.
The changes they noticed fell into one or more of these three categories.
1. Personal: Changes in self image usually (but not always) accompanied by physical changes during adolescence (reaching puberty) or during middle age (aging), or changes in the fundamental ways in which other people & life are perceived.
2. Emotional: Changes in significant relationships. (Parents divorce, another child is born or a loved one dies.)
3. Situational: Changes in the environment. (Moving to another town & having to make new friends or staying in the same town but switching careers, homes or schools.)
Whatever the specific external changes may have been, they’re merely a catalyst. The key is that the emotional response of not wanting to see or be seen, of pulling away or hiding from the world, develops first on the inner levels before it manifests physically.
RELEASING INNER BARRIERS TO SEEING
For the healing of vision to occur, it is necessary to release the habitual, inner barriers to seeing that first developed during the Vision Transition Period.
Notes one woman, Ruth G., after using The Program for Better Vision, “I found that I was intentionally blurring people once they came into seeing range…This observation has carried the process to new areas & probed the deeper question of why I’ve hidden behind blurred vision.”
One middle-aged stockbroker, Ralph P., who had been unable to see anything without his reading glasses, looked back at his Vision Transition Period - a time when he was losing money in the stock market. He recalled that he had finally reached the point where he was afraid to look at the stock tables for ‘fear of seeing’ how much he had lost that day. The tables had become the ‘proof’ that he was a failure & he did not want to see this image of himself as ‘being a failure.’
As he let go of that false image, he saw himself as much more than his temporary successes or failures. Very soon, his vision returned to normal and, for the first time in five years, he began to read & work without glasses.
Not seeing clearly is, at least to some degree, an expression of one or more of the following inner decisions:
1. An emotional decision that we do not want to see some aspect of our self, our life, or our relationship with others.
2. A desire to pull away or hide from the parts of the world that we find either threatening, confusing or overwhelming.
3. Negative messages & beliefs that we may have absorbed about seeing. By example, the young child who sees her mother upset & is told, “Nothing’s the matter” might learn the subconscious message “I can not trust what I see” or “It’s not okay to see the truth of what’s going on.”
4. A shutting down of one’s intuition or perceptiveness, which also limits our ability to sense what lays ahead in our lives.
THE TOTAL PICTURE
Glasses & contacts only deal with the symptoms of not seeing clearly. Using them doesn’t address any of the underlying factors that may have led to their need in the first place. They do not change the underlying patterns that caused the problem in the first place.
I have witnessed many powerful healings as people explore & release their inner barriers to seeing & being seen. As people move beyond their habitual way of seeing, something extraordinary emerges - an expanded view of who they’re & of the deeper potential that lies within.
Along with this inner clarity comes the outer clarity: people improve their eyesight, reduce the strength of their prescriptions or discard their glasses & lenses altogether.
This inner healing is a crucial element. That’s why I have found that people who only do eye exercises can be frustrated by their lack of improvement. (Go to http://www.bettervision.com for more.) Along with releasing the inner barriers to seeing, the other elements of a comprehensive approach to better vision are re-training the brain & eyes to work together properly, reducing stress in the visual system & supplying the visual system with the proper nutrients & supplements.
Better vision means seeing the world in the clearest, most relaxed, easiest & most efficient way possible. Better vision also means having a positive image of yourself, a clear sense of purpose & emotional clarity.
The first step to better vision begins with the inner desire that says, “I want to see!”
REFERENCES:
1. Jeffrey J. Walline, O.D., Ph.D., “The Myopia Debate,” Review of Optometry, Sept. 15, 2006
2. Richard S. Kavner, O.D., & Lorraine Dusky, Total Vision, New York: A & W Publishers, 1978
3. Richard I. Lanyon, Ph.D., et. al., “Psychological Approaches to Myopia: A Review.” American Journal of Optometry & Physiological Optics: Vol. 51, No. 4.
Martin Sussman, an internationally known expert in holistic vision care, is the author of five books, audio courses & DVDs, including the #1 best-selling The Program for Better Vision & the Read Without Glasses Method (for middle age sight). He is the founder & president of the Cambridge Institute for Better Vision which he established in 1977. Information about improving vision can be easily found at http://www.bettervision.com